Know what you want.
When people don’t have options, they get desperate. Now, there’s nothing wrong with “taking one for the team” so to speak, running into some girl who really wants it, and trying your hardest to forget about that mistake the next morning. It happens to the best of us on occasion.
But in general, it’s important to know what you want, otherwise you’ll end up wandering around aimlessly searching with no goal in mind.
So if you want a quiet, cute girl who cooks you dinner every night, you better look at your style of game and see if you look like the kind of guy she might be attracted to.
If you want a crazy Latina with a big booty who’s a freak in the bed, then you might want to take a look at yourself and make yourself a challenge to a woman like that.
Don’t waste your time around girls just because they seem into you. Every girl who’s in your life, you need to look at the amount of effort you’re putting in, versus the quality of returns you’re getting out of it.
I used to try to be more of a nice guy, more polite, more willing to waste my time with girls just because I knew they were easy pickings. But today, I move on quickly if I’m not seeing the types of reactions that I’m looking for. I’ll start talking sexual with a girl right there on the dance floor of the club, and if she seems too uptight, *NEXT.*
Don’t try to make everybody happy. There are billions of people in this world, and you need to be spending time with the people who make YOU happy. Because you’re going to have a better time with them, and naturally, you’ll provide them with a better time as well.
Have a good time out there - don’t be bashful! Call her a bad girl, and slap her booty right there in the bar. Either she’ll act really weird and lame, or she’ll snap into a trance and you’ll know right then that it is ON. Grab her hand and drag her to another part of the bar, or if you think she’s ready, tell her you’re going to grab a slice of pizza if she’d like to come.
You want to find the girls that snap into that trance (you’ll know it when you see it)… They’re the fun ones ![]()
Nathan Tyrock has spent the majority of his adult life studying social dynamics and learning the keys to being successful with women. By the time he was 22, he had already dated more beautiful women than most men will in a lifetime.
For more information, check out Nathan’s book: Getting Grades and Getting Laid: The X-Rated Guide to College






